This is a 'speak-as-you-find' feature inasmuch as, for all I know, the Rev Prebendary Graham Stones may be an irritable and intractable person at home, reserving all of a short-fused patience for the outside of his own front door.

Indeed, he may stride the disciplinarian in true Captain Von Trapp fashion, as his wife and children line up in the hallway for morning inspection... or was that George Banks in Mary Poppins? Whichever, you get my drift.

In absolute honesty I don't know Graham at all; we've never met socially other than a couple of rushed coffees to discuss OTW church items, and I've never been invited round for lunch nor have we ever popped to a pub for a snifter before (or after) Evensong.